Standard 3d plots packaged with Excel is woefully inadequate, is more of a visual fluff, and detracts from narrative rather than add insight to data.
There are few options.
1. Create XYZ matrix and plot based on it. However, without curve calculation, it will give gross misrepresentation of data.
For MESH format curving, you can use XYZ Mesh.
http://www.graytechnical.com/blog/xyz-data-inside-excel/
2. Use python extension for Excel and leverage data visualization libraries. Such as seaborn, plotly, matplotlib etc.
For python extension I'd recommend xlwings CE. I've only ever used it for static charting, so not sure if interactive chart is possible or not.
https://www.xlwings.org/
If you can live with chart being outside of Excel, you can use plotly to share/publish online for interactive chart.
https://plotly.com/python/xlwings/#online-dashboards-with-excel--python--plotly
For animated chart, you can use matplotlib to create and export it to animated gif. Then you'd follow steps in link below to show it in Excel.
http://www.repairmsexcel.com/blog/insert-gif-in-excel
3. 3 axis 2d plot. Basically you overlay 2nd chart on top of another, but use shape group to line them up and move and size as one.
There are other options, but these I've used before.