Hi Mike!
Sadly, looks like you're stuff is still getting marked as spam. My only thought is that perhaps one of the forums auto Spambot filters doesn't like the last part of your name, and is blocking everything. If that's the case, you could try to give a new name (Profile - Edit, give a new first and/or last name, then change your Display name). I will continue to try and watch the Spam box and see if your stuff keeps going there. Also, I did restore your other post where you did a Spam test.
For your second question, this forum does not support email notifications. =(
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